"if you do what is right, will you not be accepted? but if you do not do what is right, sin is crouching at your door. its desire is to have you, but you must master it." ~gen. 4:7
following are the notes i took on the message we heard sunday at church:
how do i master my addictions?
(part 3 on a hostage series)
regarding the above verse, there is SOMETHING in your life that is "crouching at your door" and is ready to rule over you. no matter who you are. addiction is that sin that crouches, ready to pounce.
"...let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles. And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us," ~Heb. 12:1b
"in the same way, count yourselves dead to sin but alive to God in Christ Jesus." ~Rom. 6:11
1.) TURN TO GOD!
there needs to be an admission.
admit that you're addicted.
admit that you need help.
you cannot quit on your own.
"we wait in hope for the Lord; He is our help and our shield." ~Ps. 33:20
the pain to continue in your addiction is worse than the pain it will take to stop.
"if my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven, and I will forgive their sin and will heal their land." ~2 Chron. 7:14 (emphasis mine)
2.) SHARE THE FINAL 10% (share your burden)
"whoever isolates himself seeks his own desire; he breaks out against all sound judgment." ~Prov. 18:1 (ESV) (emphasis mine here too)
you must start somewhere.
you need to share what's happening in your life. but more importantly what's happening when no one is looking. that "final 10%" is this: what you don't want others to know about you.
"therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. the prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective." ~James 5:16 (again, i'm doing the emphasizing)
>find accountability
>create a climate of acceptance (not only a safe person, but a safe place)
>keep it in the room (don't violate trust)
i emphasized "righteous person" because it is so important that this accountability partner (sponsor, mentor, etc.) be someone who is grounded in God's word. a righteous person.
if you can't think of anyone who fits the bill, pray for God to place someone on your heart. pray feverishly!
FIGHT FOR FREEDOM!
your addiction will cost you your life!
"the thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full." ~John 10:10
your addiction will cost you your life! (just thought i'd slip that in there twice)
"for though we live in the world, we do not wage war as the world does. the weapons we fight with are not the weapons of the world. on the contrary, they have divine power to demolish strongholds." ~2 Corinth. 10:3-4
fighting for freedom means: >crazy obedience. like get RID of it. ALL of it. any FORM of it. anything that makes you THINK of it. FLEE!
it means: >confidence in God's Word. read it! memorize it. believe in it. pray it.
and it also means: >aggressive prayer. not just asking, rather begging for help!
prayer praises His power. it honors His authority. and it humbles the pray-er.
let the Holy Spirit be the only control-er of you.
besides drugs and alcohol, what are some other forms of addiction??? (in comment section please give some examples)
